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Circumstances rule men; men do not rule circumstances.


Here is the happy little Vegemite having a bit of a look around now that he has achieved efficient rolling capacities. Like Henry as a bairn, Ez can make it from one side of the living room to the other in the blink of an eye. That’s not really a problem unless he’s headed into the uncharted waters of the kitchen bench stools, with their propensity to be pulled down on one’s noggin. Oh well, lessons must be learned the hard way sometimes!

So I was talking about decisions, and talking about thinking about decisions, and I started to talk about actions.

When I think about it, it is actually the action that is the difficult part; the decision is the easy bit, any mug can make a decision; following through on decisions is more fraught with danger (the known unknowns, I guess).

But what cost not acting? If the die is cast, the cards are dealt and the rationale is clear, then the difficult decision is in fact an easy one; what is the price of failing to act?

Decisions are good.

Actions are good.

I feel much better now.

Comments

Sue said…
Awwwww...the face of an angel!

Our lives are shaped by the choices we make and it can sometimes be the seemingly insignificant choices that can turn out to be life changing and even destiny altering.
KL said…
Awwwwwwww..........cutie-pie...is green and blue his favorite color?
So, now he is training for crawling competition at Olympic?

Actions are always tougher than decisions. One can easily make the decision of doing a bungee-jumping. But the action - the actual jumping - is really difficult to do.
I wrestle with this question of acting or not acting on decisions everyday...everyday. And I'm still no closer to an answer that satisfies me than I was when I started asking myself this.
Colette Amelia said…
I too have blogged a time or two about this. I seem to be better at coming to decisions if there is less alternatives.

The important thing is to make them and then live them and without regrets either way.

good luck!
Kris McCracken said…
Sue, no coin tossing I hope.
Kris McCracken said…
KL, he likes blue. Ez is rolling like a champion now, although he is trying to figure out the secret of crawling.
Kris McCracken said…
Findingmywingsinlife, I'm not sure that there is one definitive answers, just a whole lot of questions!
Kris McCracken said…
Colette, luck is what you make if it.
Neva said…
He has the sweetest face.....and how cool that he moves so well!!!!
freefalling said…
Oh no!
His head is de-basketballing!
Look!
It's more up and downy on the side bits.

Re decision making/action actioning:
I never knew how wonderful it felt not to have to make decisions til the ability to do so was forcibly (chemically) taken from me.
Strangely enough, the world kept turning even though I wasn't making decisions and I had to go where the flow took me.
Kinda scary but really liberating.
Now I try to mix it up a bit.
I vacillate between airy fairyness and fist-clenching decisiveness.
Oh yeah - it's a totally healthy way to lead your life!
Kris McCracken said…
Neva, he is like greased lightning!
Kris McCracken said…
FF, his head is still a little on the round side, but no, I don't think it'll stay Charlie Brown-like for good...

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